Today was the first day of classes at Free Flight. I sat in on Catherine's intro to keyboard class, which was lots of fun, and very helpful for improving some of my vocabulary. It was also very funny to Catherine and I because it was pouring rain during the class, so the roof was leaking in a few places and I had to make a couple of trips to the kitchen for jugs and pots to catch water so it wouldn't splash on the floor or pool on top of the keyboard covers. It wasn't actually that funny, it was just a good Brazil moment for Catherine and I to share unspokenly, as she lectured over the sound of the rain crashing on the asbestos tile roof. Ah Brazil.
I also had a great foreigner moment this afternoon - the rain had passed and it was very hot - hot enough that the grass dried, so I was sitting in the grass with some of the kids at Free Flight, and two of them I hadn't met before, Pricilla and Gabriel, and they clapped for me when I counted to ten in English, and they asked me questions about Canada, and Gabriel kept saying, "say something in English" so finally I told them about talking to my mom over the internet on her birthday, and this kid Gabriel was so excited and thought it was so funny that he could hardly stand up; it was incredible. I'm really pleased to say that my Portuguese is getting so much better that even when I don't understand everything people say, I can usually catch some, and when I don't know how to say something, I am more and more able to talk around it and get the idea across. It is great!
In more of a cultural punch in the guts, I found out today that Linda-Inez' step-mom, who lives across the street from Free Flight in a house made of scrap wood and metal and tarps, who has a four year old and a one and a half year old and two step-daughters who are 11 and 9... her name is Bruna, and she is a couple months younger than my brother. Her birthday is September 2, 1990. Catherine thinks that the dad is older, probably in his mid or late twenties... so I am baffled, floored to imagine this girl's life, becoming a mother and step mother to girls who could be her sisters when she was at the age to be starting grade nine in Canada.
I don't really know what to say about Bruna - I don't know what I think. This is one of those things that is probably way more complicated than a young girl getting pregnant and raising another woman's children as well as her own, but it's also really shocking to think of all the heavy things that are so common among families here. It definitely makes me think of what a charmed life I've had.
This reminds me of a joke that I failed to make with some kids last week though - we were chatting, and I asked them how old they were - 11, 8 and 7. I said that I was twenty, which received the appropriate response of being impressed, and so I said (in Portuguese), "yeah, soon I'll be a grandmother" with high hopes of a little laughter and a new topic (favourite colours, maybe!). Instead there was a puzzled silence, and Linda-Inez whispered to Michelle "ela tem filhos?". Michelle shook her head, and I said that no, I don't have any children, and I think that the nods and half-smiles were acknowlegments of something along the lines of "Canadians are weird" also "you are cool because you are old and speak English and are from far away, but you are weird." That night at supper I asked Joyce for the best way to explain in Portuguese that something was a joke, just in case I forget myself and make some other offhand comment about who knows what.
Confusion is definitely a better response to a failed joke than offense though, so really, of all the possible failures this one hardly even counts. I was thinking about it after though, and I realized that 30 year old grandparents probably happen more often than I'd think.
Anyways, it was a full day here, and I'm sure that the rest of the week will continue to be full between classes and kids and language (and God too! We've been having lots of chats). If the weather where you are is getting you down, just think how much you would rather shovel snow than start a family before high school :)
love from,
Alyssa